DO Smile and greet people, especially elders. Shake hands, gently. Accept hospitality and food. You do not have to eat and drink, but it is polite to ACCEPT. Say goodbye and thank you when you leave. Dress modestly. Women should keep upper arms and thighs covered. Bend down and walk around seated people when you need to pass. Use only your right hand to eat and to hand objects or money to someone. Be sure to sit at the same level as other people. Wear a sarong when entering the house of Melokaq (Adat leader) and when participating in ritual and adat ceremonies.